times they are a changing
something really crazy happened over the last 2 years since i stopped drinking… my friends have switched from nothing but gays to nothing but straights. except Gianni. I am no longer the dramatic drunken tragic fag-hag that has a million gay boys and reigns over 17th and R, but am the normal girl who has only one gay side kick (it’s Gianni for now… strange!) I have hung out with Gianni three times in the last week and more than any other boy since I’ve been back.
I love my gay boyfriends, especially Filip, Chris, Steve, Domingo, David (UNCKIE DAVEY!), Paul, Brad, Don, and Henry. But I haven’t seen you guys in SOOOooOOOoOO long!
I realized that my friendships had expanded beyond homos when, at Drea’s goodbye dinner, we both realized that we were the only girls at the table and that we were surrounded by straight guys (there wasn’t one gay guy with us and both Drea and I–epitome of fag-hag–were scandalized!)
I have never had straight guy friends and now I’m not only surrounded by them, but enjoy having platonic friendships! I feel so normal, so suburban. I don’t know why? I used to think that straight girls couldn’t be friends with straight guys unless there was no attraction or there were boundaries laid out (like one is in a relationship, for example)
Strange! But now I’m completely single without strings anywhere and am surrounded by good and budding platonic friendships with straight men without any odd sexual tension (more or less)! So shout out to straight boys: Matthew, Andrew F., Andrew H., Chris D (eventually), Nick, Nate, Brett, Chris P, Ben and Patrick… now quit staring at my tits. just kidding.
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who says straight guys can’t get crazy? Gianni’s straight bro Greg was going nuts at the Leather Rack! Oh, Gianni is going to kill me when he sees that I posted this. He’s such a catholic, but no guilt here:
January 21st, 2007 at 2:29 pm
Sexual tension is hard to maintain when you’re a continent away, but if you were in my area code, it would be a WHOLE different story! That being said, I value your friendship greatly.
January 22nd, 2007 at 12:56 am
I have not much experience of gays or homosexuals. but I just feel that “gay” or “homosexuality” is just a thing of mind. People always like to comfort themselves with someone who cares them the most and who understands their feelings. So many times it happens that women likes to be with women because a woman knows a woman in a better way and a woman is more confident in expressing herself to a woman than a man. So is with man. Many of them felel better in expressing themselves to a man and are too shy towards woman. When they dont get a woman easily who understand them well and their feelings and emotions they just satisfy their needs in company of a man.And the most important a healthy sex is a very important part of life which is required for both emotional and physical balance of anyone. If the gays are again changing their attitude and geting stright that means they are gettingthe right person to be with and satisfy their physical and emotional needs. You are a nice person. I respect you and your friendship. Society is build to make people live togather and not to qurrel among themselves. We should try to help gay people to live a normal life and not to neglect them from society. This increases the sence of insecurity in their mind and everything is disturbed and no one lives peacefully.
January 22nd, 2007 at 11:27 am
well..ever hanged out with lesboes?lol
January 22nd, 2007 at 8:35 pm
id hang out with you if you put out more often.
January 23rd, 2007 at 1:29 am
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January 24th, 2007 at 7:24 am
hi der…
just passing by to make friends…hehehe hav a nice day..
January 24th, 2007 at 9:45 am
i would so love to have ya around
January 25th, 2007 at 5:38 pm
hi! I just wanna greet a happy 2007 to all. wish you luck this year guys!!!
January 26th, 2007 at 2:36 am
you are just one of the few real creature here on earth…
January 26th, 2007 at 3:05 am
hi your so very beautiful
January 28th, 2007 at 3:17 am
i like your story. actually i might be posting a real good comment for your blogs next time..
January 28th, 2007 at 7:28 am
thanks all!
February 8th, 2007 at 4:56 am
I think you’re happier and more confident and that’s why you’re not exclusively hanging out with us gays. We’re a safe bunch for the fabulous, yet messy urban gal (speaking from experience). But now that you’ve got your shit together, you can branch out and meet all types. Go on with your bad self mama!