Update on Drea

Drea called to tell me about her first day of school. She actually called when she landed, called when she was at dinner, called before she went to sleep, called when she woke up and then called after school.

So back to her first day of school. I said before that her town is so small that probably more people live in my building than probably her town. That might be a stretch, but I DO know that I have more friends on friendster than kids in her new middle school. That said, all the kids looked at her on her first day like she was some exotic animal.

They asked her about her boots, poked at her clothes, virtually pulled on her hair, in wonder at the beauty and uniqueness they saw in her. "she wears a sweater and no jacket!" she told me they said. "Aren’t you cold?" they pondered to her, and she laughed because it was only 43 degrees and that wasn’t nothin’ compared to what she had experienced in DC.

"Auntie Debbie! Two boys asked me out to the school dance on Friday" she exclaimed on the phone, all the while I asked if they were hot. I forgot to ask her about any gay boyfriends she could accessorize with… JUST KIDDING kids.

Anyway, perhaps her time in Silver Spring allowed her to fully appreciate the intimacy of a small-town and perhaps it gave her the strength to see her own beauty and uniqueness, giving her a way to feel stronger and more able to tackle a new school. If she had gone with her dad immediately, perhaps the transition might have been harder. Who knows.

I love that kid.

10 Responses to “Update on Drea”

  1. xxx Says:

    hI der!!.. cool bLog!!.. lov it!!.
    take care!

  2. gamal Says:

    how r u
    i memo u very very lovely women
    i hope we can be friends

  3. samuel Says:

    YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!

  4. samuel Says:

    NICE DOG YOU GOT THERE AND YOU? yOU ARE AN ANGEL TO MY EYES!!!!!!!!

  5. Tracer Jhay R Says:

    just rememeber less people do something beyond the ordinary and if they did us ourselves would be amazed or wount even believe it

  6. jareer Says:

    hi im jareer from jordan ………………..

  7. Mr DiDoOthh Says:

    he.. im aditya from indonesia

  8. rose Says:

    hi ur dog are so cute i love it…

  9. nina Says:

    There are times that we have to face the new environment. Being new to the environment is not a reason why we can’t mingle with other people. Besides, we should adjust to the environment we are in. If ever the people in this new environment doesn’t like us, this must be a strong reason for us to do our best to adjust with them but we also have to make sure that we do not change for the bad instead, CHANGE FOR THE GOOD!

  10. Girlie Says:

    Hi, Drea maybe too dependent that even making friends with other people was hard for her. She must learn how to cope with the changes in her environment, especially it was her first day of school with nobody around to accompany her. Just learn to trust in yourself and accept everybody’s differences specially that she looks different from all the other students around her. It is just okay, just put in mind that we are all different.

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