an update… is this boring?

I saw Chris yesterday afternoon. It was perfect timing. I work in Silver Spring and was wrapping up to leave and Chris was coming into Takoma Park (2 seconds away from my work) to go to Kung Fu. He stopped by my office and we hung out for 15 minutes. When I look at him, I see someone who I would rather know as a friend than as a boyfriend. He’s not ready and perhaps neither am I. Too bad we can’t be friends with benefits (well, that gets complicated and difficult to sustain anyway.) Anyways, am I beating a dead horse on this topic?

So I got into work SUPER early this morning so I can finish up work and leave early. This weekend is going to be action packed. Parties on Friday and Saturday night. Clubbing on Friday and Saturday night–Sat will be fun because there’s a turntables competition @ Five. Saturday morning will be SUPER fun as I’ll go shopping with Wendy and the sun @ the pool. Sunday I may go for a walk or chill with Nate (remember him? did I ever blog about him? hmmmm…) and if I don’t chill with Nate I’ll go to Baltimore with Paul. FUN FUN! Love the weekends!

18 Responses to “an update… is this boring?”

  1. Algernon Says:

    Not boring - yet commenting about it seems inappropriate since I don’t really know you. (I started reading your blog a few entries ago, because you made me laugh.)

    Changing or ending a relationship is awkward at the very best, and harrowing at the worst, and I wish you well.

  2. Matthew Says:

    I’m glad you’re feeling so much better. You were pretty miserable there for a while!

  3. Hebron Says:

    Glad things went ok with him:)

    on another note. I am tired just reading your schedual for the weekend girl!! You are sure full of energy and life.. good for you kido. I have a stupid shirt contest to go to tonight… and moving out saturday morning and a birthday party later.. pails in comparesion to your schedual:) keep it up…:)

  4. Wen Says:

    Why can’t there be just friendship between opposite sex, like just handing out and have a good time, a hug, a pat on the shoulder, a kiss maybe, and many laughs?

  5. fatima Says:

    hey,wats up?

  6. Chrissy Says:

    You know you don’t know me , but I really like your blog it reallyy grabbed my attention. and also I’m glad that guy with Chris is okay. I mean you can be friends and still hang without being together. So bye
    -Chrissy

  7. Ranveer Says:

    Hi Debbie..

    u Look too gorgeous and sexy..

    I will pray to god that u remain so forever ur life..and get whatever u want in ur life..

    bye ! bye !!

  8. Leony Says:

    Guess what U look great…

  9. Jimmy Says:

    hi Debbei

    i like you to become of my friend …

  10. nysh Says:

    hi
    if real then
    great look
    if not real
    then great
    thinking abt you

  11. nysh Says:

    Do you know some people are so lazy about to get the right person in their life and i hope you are not of one of them

  12. nysh Says:

    sometimes you miss the person who may be best for you and then we blame the god for this and we are not such looking our mistake , so if you find a right person then you have to make it in hurry becoz there is no second chance for the most of the people and mostly the beautiful girls misses the first chance they get and they alwyas try to find the second chance of the same kind but sorry they dont get and……i think grab the opportunity in first time and just dont trust the luck for a second time ….my email address is coolfire_2006fun@yahoo.com and i hope i will get the mail from you for a good relationship ….i m sure ,,,i need your thoughts abt it

  13. syedmudassar Says:

    hello dear how are you i wana friendship with you

  14. Juk-Ying Says:

    WOW…first thing that caught my attention was his name, Chris, whom brokes my little <3, and as I continued to read your blog…what caught more attention was how your feeling toward Chris, which was what I felt for someone else recently.. well…with a different name…and spattered with a little benifit.. it does get so complicated caused by the mixxed up feelings. Just wanted to let you know how cool it is to see this blog. your so popular :)

  15. Hyacinth Says:

    Whats boring about it? You got tons of fun every weekend like I do. I Spend Saturday nights with my friends from webdate*com and Sundays with my family and close friends.

  16. danielle Says:

    you seem to have a fun weekend.. maybe you could add the fun by getting hooked up with someone from webdate_dot_com.. :)

  17. Samuel Says:

    yes this is boring. where´s the tail?

  18. fenska Says:

    nice girl…

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