straight guys
I spent the last 5 years working at the Feminist majority foundation and spent most of my adulthood hanging with gay men. I think I’ve grown to become very afraid of straight men. I imagine being abducted, tortured, raped and killed by the way some of these guys look at me as I’m walking down the road to work or on the bus. I swear to god it feels like I’m being hunted.
My friend Bri told me that all women get checked out and I have to get over it. I wish there was a place where women didn’t immediately get assessed by men at first glance and where personality and interest is important. I wish i was a lesbian.
May 29th, 2005 at 7:55 am
You’re in the feminist majority and now I am a Socialist! Cool - we can unite against oppressors and strike fear into THEIR hearts.
Don’t fear str8 men - why should you feel hunted. Flip those feelings around. Make them fear your - they aren’t prepared or able to deal with it. All you have to do is go for their subconscious asshole - they are all afraid of being emasculated or being seen as gay, use that against them! The right ones will probably like it and I wager are the hot ones that you would actually want to date. They’ll be real, unlike these poseur macho assholes who are just pussies on the inside.
You don’t want to be a dyke - you would look horrid in plaid and subaru.
Stay black sister!
luv- TOS
May 29th, 2005 at 2:10 pm
Contrary to what Tos says, you would look smashing in plaid. And I’ll have you know, the gay men are checking you out too
May 29th, 2005 at 7:44 pm
Oh honies! How dare either of you suggest that I would be caught wearing plaid. If I were to lesbian, I would be a lipstick lezzy. I would blend into society and “pass” for straight…
seriously, thanks for the words of confidence and advice. Tos–I think I will carry a strap on wherever I go and whip it out when I see the nasty looks that make me feel hunted. Let’s see how these assholes respond when they see me packing heat!
May 29th, 2005 at 10:50 pm
Debbie,
Why you have such thinking???
You should not always imagine the bad things…..
God will bless you!!!
Well, sometimes, I also have same idea with you…
The straight guy is really useless….
On the other hand, the gay men maybe will always care about women feeling…
At least they will not hurt a gal…
May 30th, 2005 at 11:11 am
Debbie used the word “lesbian” as a verb. I like it.
May 31st, 2005 at 4:57 pm
debbie with a strap-on and str8 guys running scared - so much more fun than picking fights with chix on the metro right!
June 1st, 2005 at 12:34 am
For the record, you’re pretty much a hotness, so um…rather than lamenting that fact…be glad you’re not making the blog entry that says, “How come every guy I meet says I have a great personality….?”
If you got what the ppl think is beautiful, e-n-j-o-y it…and by the way, you do have a great personality….and I don’t mean that in a bad way… : )
June 28th, 2005 at 8:58 am
Randomly came upon your blog… Why the hate for straight men, The sketch balls you write about on your blog are admittidaly met at skeevy places where they buy you drinks. Frankly a good man has a hard time buying a girl a drink. Because their not going through the routine and their rarely in the bar scene because thats not their element, clubs,on-the-job, offices, sports, beach with the dog shit maybe you can catch him off guard.
It all goes down to two things some people expect to be looked for and others expect nothing and keep their eyes open.
Maybe the location and the losers are a connection too?
Unlike the movie Hitch, I think reality potrayals that meeting someone in a bar thats meaningful in any way shape or form is non existant. Its a fairy tale or a one night stand. Others can disagree sure but the only people I know who are still in a meaningfull relationship met at college outside the bar and through friends or prior ot college all together maybe. Relationships suck anyways.
Just live in the moment and dont get caught up in the night scene otherwise your looking at bodies and not listening to a word said, and your most likely going to end up with a guy doing just the same damned thing.
And whats wrong with doing that? Nothing I am not here to judge but most men at bars are desperate and horney not evil, which i think can be said about the opposite sex? Just dont go for the skeevy guy or you’ll confirm your distaste with a preset plan.
Good luck
Joe
June 28th, 2005 at 9:01 am
“Nothing I am not here to judge but most men at bars are desperate and horney not evil, which i think can be said about the opposite sex?” — Meant… that the same can be said for both sexes not that either sex was evil lol. typos… wish this thing had a forum editor
Joe
April 29th, 2009 at 4:07 am
Very nice post.