About bisexuals
Last night at Yaniv’s goodbye party (he leaves back to his motherland israel in 6 days…*sniff*) I met a lot of cool new gay guys. The party had about 50-60 gay boys, 3 girls, one straight couple (this guy was in a serious relationship w/ my friend elena after I had a weird hookup with him at the chaos deejay booth where he once worked… ha! yes, Diego–that’s the secret of last night), and 2 bisexual boys (that I knew of).
I had a drunken philosophical conversation about sexuality with a hot italian, Danny, with his boyfriend and this guy who said he was bi (oh boy do I wish!) Some gay boys have told me that they would have sex with a girl if she were hot. HOWEVER, I rarely hear about one-night stands with girls from any of my gay boyfriends. Is it all talk?
I have made out with a LOT of gay boys (drunken mostly, with Yaniv being my favorite). I’m rambling. I guess I’m wondering, what’s the point of a gay guy saying he would screw a girl if he knows that if the ideal situation presented itself, it would never happen…
One of my friends, let’s say his name is David, has a LOT of sex with men (he puts Filip to shame). Although he has a lot of sex with men, he has told me that he would never close the door to a potential partner with a girl. Actually, he said he’ll probably settle down with a girl because he has better friendships/relationships with them. I love David because he genuinely can fall in love with either gender, but I’m wondering… even if he could have a relationship with either sex, does his body crave sex with men more than with women? There doesn’t seem to be a balance of sex with men and women with him or any of the other bisexual boys I know.
None of this makes sense, but then again, I’m completely hung over and working on 3 hours of sleep.
May 14th, 2005 at 2:48 pm
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and u never showed him to me…
May 14th, 2005 at 3:10 pm
I felt Debbie’s tits last night
May 14th, 2005 at 8:19 pm
Clamping my tits with a chip clip does not count.
May 14th, 2005 at 9:11 pm
I was going to come in here and give a nice, almost philosophical, explanation about the malleable nature of human sexual attachment from an anthropological perspective (my undergrad) but…it just seems out of place. Suffice it to say that evolution (or whatever you believe…) made us complex enough that, as concrete as sexual “preference” appears to be, sex-drive and emotion-attachment can easily override it - if only temporarily.
That said, WAY TO GO DAVE!!
(I think the chip clip is a WEAK cover-up…)
May 14th, 2005 at 9:12 pm
Did I say Dave? Oops. WAY TO GO STEVE! Meh…
May 15th, 2005 at 8:00 am
seriously, folks. chip clips. not finger tips. and it hurt a little!
May 15th, 2005 at 2:15 pm
i am glad we are such complex creatures. bisexuals rule!
May 15th, 2005 at 5:35 pm
Right now, all of my lesbian/bi-girl friends are in relationships with men, and all of my bi-male friends are in relationships with men. This leaves me with no one! j/k
May 16th, 2005 at 10:12 am
DIEGO–forgot to mention it, but he was the one with the girlfriend.
May 16th, 2005 at 11:50 am
my head looks like a melon in that pic - worse a pumpkin since i was wearing my orange shirt! you are lucky that you are special Miss Thang else I would have never hauled my cute ass all the way up there
May 16th, 2005 at 12:44 pm
You are adorable in that pic! I just love you!
May 17th, 2005 at 8:28 am
cannt do it in anywhere
May 17th, 2005 at 8:34 am
dont do it enywhere
May 17th, 2005 at 8:41 am
dont do it enywhere
May 29th, 2005 at 10:54 pm
Debbie,
I hope you do not misunderstanding….
Having sex with the guy you love is normal thing….But for me, before married and having sex is abnormal…
I do not know whether is these are all about our culture???
In Malaysia, it has this phenomenon too…
I meant having sex before married…
I think the number is increasing now…
But, I do not understand is it having sex before married is a good way to improve relationship with the man???